There are some issues to consider
when deciding between cremation and burial. Families may encounter
some discomfort with cremation and resistance from family members
for a variety of personal reasons.
Will your family be comfortable with cremation? Some family members
are disturbed at the thought of death itself, much less cremation,
which many perceive as a cold and uninvolved process. They may
resist your wishes when the time comes. Address it with your family
now if you want to be cremated. You can put their unease to rest,
and have peace of mind knowing your wishes will be carried out.
Immediate cremation is one option. The body is cremated immediately
after death with no formal service arranged to commemorate the
life of the deceased.
Cremation with memorial service. A formal ceremony is conducted
to commemorate the life of the deceased. Typically, the cremated
remains are present during this service.
A public or private visitation prior to cremation is yet another
option. A religious or non-religious ceremony may be conducted
after the visitation.
Another factor you should consider when deciding whether or not
to choose cremation include the fact that crematories are operated
by dedicated people with great respect for the deceased.
For purposes of safety and dignity, it's generally required that
bodies are cremated in a rigid container such as a casket or other
container approved for cremation.
Restrictions on cremation are different from state to state,
even from one cemetery to the next. Depending on the final resting
place you choose, requirements may include an urn, urn vault,
and other items. Making your choices now can help your family
down the road. In most cases, cremation satisfies federal clean
air requirements.
You should check to ensure that all personal property has been
removed from the deceased at the funeral home and returned to
the family or executor unless otherwise instructed. Families should
also be mindful of valuables and mementos placed with the loved
one.
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